You’d be shocked to find out just how attractive trying is.
You don’t have to be James Bond. If you simply put some thought into your appearance and clean up the edges, your attractiveness will drastically improve. Getting your hair cut on a regular basis, shaving your neck, ironing your clothes, polishing your shoes. Every gesture to slightly improve your look will drastically improve it. People might not be able to point out what it is, but they’ll notice whatever it is, it’s better.